Sex with Atheists v. Theists (male perspective)

[ChiefOfAss]

I admit, this is kind of stupid. But, I was thinking about my experiences and wondered if anyone else wanted to share their perspectives. And... it's fun.

For clarity, I'm talking about having sex with Christian women versus Atheists women. And, Atheist as in women who consciously aware they are atheists... not simply godless savages.

If I added up the half dozen or so that were devout Christians, I'd have to characterize them all as super-freaks. The more repressed I figured them for, the more sick, twisted shit they'd do.

And, even the "normal" Christian girls performed more like sex slaves than partners.

Only after I started dating an atheist in college did I learn that women weren't there for my domination and objectification. I'll be honest, it sucked at first.

After bouncing back and forth a couple times before deciding that respect for the person was more important than gonzo porn sex, my theory is that the Christian girls are so ashamed of their desires and see themselves as lesser beings. The atheist, on the other hand, doesn't think anything is wrong with sex - first off; and secondly, thinks of herself as a person and a servant to no one.

Am I investing too much in my limited sample set of experiences, or is there something to this?

[BadFish]

Your thinking way to much.


"Only after I started dating an atheist in college did I learn that women weren't there for my domination and objectification. I'll be honest, it sucked at first."

Having Gonzo porn sex isn't Domination Nor Objectification.

I do know that some of the best porn sex i've had was with
some devout Theist girls. Since i dont really know any Atheist chicks i couldn't
tell you. I do find it interesting that chicks like to pick and choose what parts of religion
they will/won't obey.

[BaalDemon]

Jewish girls are pretty Kinky

[BadFish]

Jewish girls are pretty Kinky
Yea, Mormon chicks were pretty freaky too..

[ChiefOfAss]

Yeah... so... I don't think I'm "thinking way too much". Maybe it's a misplaced romantic notion to say that atheists have a more developed sense of self respect, but it seems to make sense that the culture of repression within religion cultivates freaky biznitches behind closed doors.

So... c'mon Christians! Keep raising your daughters up "right".

[truthmonger]

Yeah, but there’s something sneaky and subversively romantic about the gonzo porn sex with Christian girls: for some of them, it’s the best sex they’ll ever have, and they will always remember you for it. One Christian girl was so uptight and guilt-ridden with her clothes on, I knew it wouldn’t last so I gave her her very first vibrator as a going-away present. I get a laugh knowing there’s at least one Christian girl out there who’s learning to enjoy herself, thanks to me, the evil atheist. It’s like my little bit of revenge on religion if I can make a girl understand even just for a short time, that massive pointless guilt is not part of human nature.

[ChiefOfAss]

Brightly colored latex dongs have never sounded so romantic ;)

But as far as, "massive pointless guilt is not part of human nature."
In fact, it must be part of our nature... unless it is supernatural. Anyone know where guilt comes from?

There's nothing I can think of in man's nature that is unique to him, except for guilt. There's probably a link somewhere in man's make-up , but I can't come up with it straight off.

[SKS]

Jewish girls are pretty Kinky
Only the non-observant ones.

[SKS]

Jewish girls are pretty Kinky
Yea, Mormon chicks were pretty freaky too..
Then they werent really mormons according to the mormon official-types ;)

[SKS]

Yeah... so... I don't think I'm "thinking way too much". Maybe it's a misplaced romantic notion to say that atheists have a more developed sense of self respect, but it seems to make sense that the culture of repression within religion cultivates freaky biznitches behind closed doors.

So... c'mon Christians! Keep raising your daughters up "right".
Abstinence leads to compulsion (not sexual abstinence, just abstinence in general).

So its to be expected that repressed Xtian girlies will get wild when they think they can get away with it.

Then again, my atheist girlfriend and I have done some wild freaky shit, but its just that when we do it, there isnt much degredation or subjugation. Its "healthier" emotionally even though it can be just as freaky or freakier than with a Christian.

And is it just me or are atheists more down with the group-sex thing?

[ChiefOfAss]

No, in fact... that was my next statistically invalid observation.

But, first... I want to try and clarify myself. It wasn't that the God Believers were more inventive or "kinkier". It seems like... they are more historically accustomed to being treated as chattle. Like, mindless property, nothing too dehumanizing to prove their love. God bless 'em.

I'm exaggerating for texture... but, what I'm saying is that it was just a little less 'real' with the Jesus freaks.

I was engaged to one, and looking back, I can really see where the joke about marriage being a more expensive form of prostitution comes from.

Back to the group thing: One paradox was that as subserviant as they are, the idea of a little lipstick lesbo action or some hive fucking is totally out of the question. Whereas, the Realitists seem to be more open to it... at the very least.

I guess that's why my Dad always used to tell me that you 'have fun' with Christians, but you marry atheists.

[z3n]

I guess that's why my Dad always used to tell me that you 'have fun' with Christians, but you marry atheists.
That sounds similar to another phrase that I’ve heard: “Men are looking for a woman that can be a lady at dinner and a slut in bed”.

[SKS]

I just want a slut, 24/7. Birds of a feather flock together.

[ChiefOfAss]

I just want a slut, 24/7. Birds of a feather flock together.
Well, then... come on down to central Florida. Find the most pink sweater wearin', father figure deficit havin', not readin' nothin', trailer park living Christian and you'll have your very own body-temperature sex toy.

[SKS]

I just want a slut, 24/7. Birds of a feather flock together.
Well, then... come on down to central Florida. Find the most pink sweater wearin', father figure deficit havin', not readin' nothin', trailer park living Christian and you'll have your very own body-temperature sex toy.
Im soooooooo there!

Im going to Miami (music in background)

[ChiefOfAss]

No, no... listen to me man. Miami is godless. The chicks there cost money. If that's what you're into, go to the place of origin for the women there (Cuba, Haiti, Dominican Republic) because the prices are better. WAY BETTER.

The common misconception by non-Floridians is that Miami is Florida at all. The only part of Miami that is really even the United States is the customs office in the airport.

You need to go to some place like Winter Haven or Lakeland Florida. Nothing but white-bread white chicks who've been caged like animals by the crushing yoke of Christianity.

Go to the one of the many "Assembly of God" churches, sign up to be a "counselor" and see what happens.

[ghoulslime]

Jewish girls are pretty Kinky
Only the non-observant ones.
What if my sausage is Kosher?

[Striver]

i do think that repression/abstinence leads to more compulsive behavior, but I'm not so sure about the weird chattle theories you have going on.

Look, think aobut this way. Women are hard-wired to care more about social status. So they'll go to church even if they don't take it seriously to be part of "the group". That's why you'll find few women who overtly profess to be atheists. But their actual morals vary as much as those of men.

By the way, the christian men tend to have problems too, but the outlets for dealing with them are different. They might use prostitutes or sneak looks at porn and then feel guilty, that kind of thing. The women on the other hand will get drunk as an "excuse" for getting laid and do the same sort of things.

[Lucretius]

maybe living in this nutty ass Christian town is not so bad after all…

[ChiefOfAss]

Jewish girls are pretty Kinky
Only the non-observant ones.
What if my sausage is Kosher?
Christian girls love to be converted via injection. It pisses the parents off.

[valleyshrew]

I've only ever done it with atheists. I would never have sex with a religious person.

[ChiefOfAss]

I've only ever done it with atheists. I would never have sex with a religious person.
Your loss dude.

[Adeldas]

I'm sorry guys, couldn't help listening, but your generalization stinks. As a woman I can tell you it does not matter what religion we are. I attended a catholic college, (please don't conclude from this that I am catholic) and I recall plenty of girls at the local state school who used to give out plenty and some on the other hand that where very shy about there bodies. What I am trying to say is that it is a body image thing. Some Girls have a great body image right from puberty, some develop it over time, usually with their sexual experiences and some never develop it.
Sorry again for the intrusion, hope I helped a little.

[Another brick in the wall]

Sometimes pretending you're religious is a good way to get women. They try to corrupt you.

[Another brick in the wall]

Go for it. You only get one life.

[Another brick in the wall]

No, I mean one life followed by feasting and sparing in the Hall of the Gods, where brave warriors await Ragnarok.

[Another brick in the wall]

Probably not a good idea to pretend to be gay around violent, armed, drunken Vikings.

[LogicMan]

Yeah... so... I don't think I'm "thinking way too much". Maybe it's a misplaced romantic notion to say that atheists have a more developed sense of self respect, but it seems to make sense that the culture of repression within religion cultivates freaky biznitches behind closed doors.
Good observation. The more knowledgeable a person becomes the less suceptable they are to the kind of contradictory thinking that leads to relying on secure feeling rather than confidence which is a consequence of actually knowing. Religeon stunts a person abilities to become knowledgeable by telling them that some things are beyond reality or outside of existense (the universe...a magical being). Religeon (at least christian) teaches people that they are born as sinners...great way to build confidence in a child hah!

But as far as, "massive pointless guilt is not part of human nature."
In fact, it must be part of our nature... unless it is supernatural. Anyone know where guilt comes from?

There's nothing I can think of in man's nature that is unique to him, except for guilt. There's probably a link somewhere in man's make-up , but I can't come up with it straight off.
No it is not natural.

[devil almighty]

I went out with a catholic called catherine, i used to say to her, cath lick and she did any time anywhere even in public [pubic] places. She"s a right slut, with a gob on her just like all thick as pig shit catholics.