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Just thought I'd tell you how I handle telling the believers out there that what was drilled into their heads since childhood is bullshit. I pretty much keep my mouth shut about it unless I'm asked.
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Wise move, given that anything pro-active is bound to be met with a great deal of unnecessary grief.
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When I'm at family functions and they bow their heads to thank God for food that he didn't have a thing to do with putting on the table, I just stand there and look around the room.
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I try not make my irreverence so obvious. I do sit still and try to reflect on how grateful I am to be able to eat a meal. That way I'm being respectful of my hosts' sensibilities and simutaneously indulging my own. I often suspect that I'm not the only one at the table doing so.
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I run into some guy at a job site and he mentions Jesus 100 times in a two minute conversation about where he wants things to go. I just smile and go about my business.
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Again, the prudent choice.
After all, what is to be gained by needlessly upsetting Mr. Jesus Freak? Nothing but stoking his need for childish retaliation, in all likelihood. You don't need to disturb that hornet's nest. Life already poses enough challenges.
Besides, if you want to vent, you can safely do that here.
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Most people are nice, hard working people who are trying to make it through life without being miserable.
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Superficially, I agree.
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They use what ever religion to give themselves a base to live by. I have no problem with those people.
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Generally speaking, neither do I.
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It's the pseudo Christians who drink and smoke and have extramarital affairs and drive Cadillac Escalades and wear the latest trend in fashion. Who cut a check every Christmas to the poor kids in Africa who are suffering due to some other dog shit religion.
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Some of these folks are actually real Christians. They also happen to be "bad" people, who pay no heed to their own hypocrisy. They may cut a check to ease their guilty consciences., but I'm sure the needy in Africa are, none the less, grateful for the assistance. I know I would be, if I desperately needed it.
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These kind of Christians really piss me off and I take great pleasure in telling them that they've been fooled their whole lives. You know the type I'm talking about.
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Yeah, I do. And I rarely get any satisfaction talking to them. So I avoid it in real life.
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The ones that think they're better than you because you're not up to their level of self-inflated sense of godliness.
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Well, I can't begin to take that kind of unearned and over-inflated sense of self-worth seriously. So I don't. There has got to be some serious provocation for me to even react to it.
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They're the ones I love to tell "You and your God can just fuck off"
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Well, if it makes you feel better, by all means, go for it. But the folks you address in this manner rarely feel the sting of your words, at least not the way you intended. So, ultimately, you're doing it for you and not for them.
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I was at a barbeque once and the conversation turned to some child who had recently died of cancer in a very drawn out and unpleasant way.
So I asked "why is it that a so called loving God would allow innocent children to die this way"? No one answered me except this one bitch with a drink in one and a cigarette in the other started yelling at me "How dare I' and telling me I had some nerve. Her husband is my best friend and she knows our back ground of the biker lifestyle we used to lead. And saying that it was a miracle that we were both alive blah blah blah. I said to her "The reason we're both alive today is that God didn't choose us to put brain tumors in our heads when we were three years old". Then I told her to shut up.
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And did she? Shut up, that is? If she did, I would say that was definitely worth it, especially if it also caused her to drop her cigarette, spill her drink and run crying from the picnic table. Or better yet, if she just lowered her eyes, brimming with tears, and responded: "I never thought about that."
Otherwise, you probably just made her mad and resentful of you as a person. If you don't care, well, I guess that's good too.
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Any how I don't wear my beliefs no my sleeve, but if I'm asked I will tell them.
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Well, I try not to make an issue of my disbelief in other people's assertions of a god, meaning I don't go out of my way to share my atheism unbidden. I'm not an evangelist and I long ago learned that unprovoked discussions of atheism are seldom welcome conversation amongst "true believers." So long as they're not actively trying to get me involved in their delusions, I just let them be. I can hear without listening, if need be.
However, I have no problem sharing my active beliefs regarding politics and social matters when others are already sharing theirs.
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I draw the line at acting like I do believe to gain any one's favor.
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Most definitely.
And welcome to the forum!